Are these a big turn off (*May Be Triggering*)?

Are cuts from self harm a turn off? I'm afraid a guy will really like me and then when we are ready to have sex, they will scare him away... so what is your personal opinion?
Are these a big turn off (*May Be Triggering*)?

  • A huge turn off
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  • Kind of a turn off
    5% (1)21% (6)15% (7)Vote
  • Doesn't bother me
    63% (12)55% (16)58% (28)Vote
  • A turn on
    0% (0)3% (1)2% (1)Vote
  • other/results
    16% (3)4% (1)8% (4)Vote
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Most Helpful Guy

  • As long as she has stopped cutting, I'm completely fine with it. But those scars tell me that she is a very sensitive girl inside, so I'd have to be more cautious about her feelings.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Run from anyone that finds self-harm a turn on. Just saying.

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What Guys Said 9

  • The scars themselves aren't a big deal at all. My concern would be the person behind them. Is the "problem" gone and out of the way so that a healthy relationship can move forward? If so... then they don';t matter one little bit.

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  • I just think whoever did all the self-harm cuts should have thought about the possible scarring and the permanence of said scarring in foresight, not hindsight. I mean really, though, I never understood why anyone would think that's a good idea, depression or not.

    Anyways, I voted B).

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  • Shouldn't be a problem - Talk to him about it beforehand and prepare him for shock of seeing the scars.

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  • It's not a turn off for me in a "eww, gross" physical type of way.

    But I'd immediately question her mental health, like if she's depressed or something.

    And that would get me out of thinking about her sexually.

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    • what if you already knew she had depression and stuff?

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    • my boyfriend has seen them and knows very well what's going on... do you think they would bother him that much...

    • Depends on his actions when you guys get down to business. If he goes with it, then it means he doesn't care.

  • Not exactly a turn on, I mean I do t encourage it, but if I saw those I would certainly feel like kissing every single one

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  • That would bother me honestly. Those blemishes make you imperfect.

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    • i wasn't perfect to begin with

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    • You read what I typed. I made no mistakes.

    • You tend to make a lot of mistakes actually

  • Yea them scars ain't cute. You needa eat too. You look seriously under weight.

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    • I purposely pulled my knees apart so you could see the scars better. I am underweight but not that underweight.

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    • I'm not mad I'm just being honest ☕️🐸

    • @iamyourneighbor tf ok?

  • Cuts don't bother me, self-harm does. If she's stopped doing it, then it doesn't bother me.

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  • Damn you gotta get some meat in them bones, and what's up with the scars? issues much?

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    • many issues, sadly. Difficult past and some mental issues...

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    • I have a professional, dont worry. I don't do it because it's "pretty" anyways

    • She didn't ask for your opinion about her weight but I'm sure your small dick don't care either way

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