Should I try to get a more defined stomach? Try for abs? Is that an attractive look on a girl?
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Focus on feeling fit, not looking attractive. Feeling good starts to make you feel like you look good, so that's a win win. Trying hard to look good will never lead you to feeling good, you're more likely to dry trying.
Fitness will tell you what the right look for your body is, tone will appear as it will and if the form fits the function, you are at your ideal physical specimenhood.
Try yoga, for starters. Allow your waist to become flexible, feel the freedom develop when you can stretch all the way down each side0