I'd love to hear your honest opinion.
No rude comments please.
''No rude comments, please be honest''
All I'm asking for is honest opinions, without being rude - I can't see how hard that is to understand.
I'm asking because a guy I once liked and had something with apparently told some of his friends, that I looked a bit fat. It really fucked me up.
One of my other friends told me this after he told them this - of course some took my side and just ignored him but it still made/makes me feel like shit.
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Please for the love of god stop. Stop caring. Love your body, accept it has imperfections. Stop letting a toxic media-fueled mindset pave the way for how you feel about yourself. You are not by any means fat. You look healthy.
If you want to work on yourself, fine. Work on yourself. But before you decide to work on yourself physically, try to work on yourself mentally. When you accept yourself and find happiness in who you are, you're less likely to harm yourself in an effort to better yourself.
This is fat:
This is also me. And I accept who I am, I'm happy with who I am. I acknowledge that I need work, I acknowledge I don't have a typically attractive body. But accepting myself means I'm not negatively setting myself back by thinking I'm not worth it.
When you accept yourself you learn accept the responsibilities that come along with being and improving you.4
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