My boyfriend's "type" is curvy, heavy women. Both of his ex girlfriends before me were over 300 pounds. When we met, I was 195 and he told me I am the smallest girl he has ever dated.
He absolutely loves my body, he's all over me all the time and gets so turned on by me.
I am unhappy with my body. I want to lose more weight and tone up my stomach and thighs. I am worried that if I lose more weight and tone up he will be less attracted to me because I won't be big anymore.
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At the end of the day you have to look out for yourself. Going through life as a 200+ lb woman would not be very fulfilling, easy, or fun. Then you have to consider the long term effects i. e; diabetes, cholesterol, heart attacks, and the list goes on. I can understand where your boyfriend is coming from and while I am not attracted to heavy women I AM generally attracted to thick women and wouldn't want a thick gal to lose weight etc. That being said, anyone who opposes your desire of becoming a healthier version of yourself, is not good for you at all AND may not even truly love you. At the end of the day, you want to be with someone who has agape love for you. Agape love is a perfect love despite circumstances so, someone who loves you no matter what. Through thick and thin, both figuratively and literally...
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