I have been rejected by 4 guys this year. It seemed to be going okay but then I get ignored or dumped. I got out of an abusive relationship early on in summer and my self esteem has been in tatters ever since. I'm trying to get back out there but dating is hard, I can't seem to get anyone to stick around. Am I too ugly to date long term or is my personality defective? These are the kinds of things my ex has put in my head but they feel true. That I'm not someone you show to your friends or family cause I'm worthless. Every relationship or dating since just seems to confirm all the things he said. I lost a lot of weight to try and get something about me to look decent, I'm not fat anymore but I don't know. I've been made to feel like something hideous you hide away. Am I?
Most Helpful Guy
No your not ugly at all, in fact I think your really attractive. It seems you keep on running into the wrong men, they all seem like assholes for rejecting such a beautiful person. You just haven't ran into the right guy yet. He is out there you just gotta keep on looking for him, and be patient mr right will show up in your life when you least expect it. I have hopes and dreams of finding my true love one day, and you should to. Just be yourself. I hope this hey!2
- Show AllShow Less