most of the time, skinny girls gets all the hate
why is that?
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I wouldn't say we get all the hate. We get a "fair" share amount of hate, just like big girls do (or anyone does, everyone gets hate for something). I would argue that it's easier to be skinny than big, though. From what I can tell most guys still prefer fit and/or thin women. The only issue they seem to have with us is maybe the lack of curves. But lots of guys still enjoy or prefer a nice handful of boobs and butt lol.
Usually, sadly, when someone says something along the lines of "meat is for men, bones are for dogs", "skinny bitch", "go eat a burger", "real women have curves" etc, that someone is usually a woman. :/ Insecure people in general tend to want to bring down those who are the opposite of themselves, which is sad. It's like they try to take out the competition, because they most likely feel threatened somehow.
Try to not let it get to you or lash out on people for it. I know some bigger girls lash out on skinny girls, even those who haven't done or said anything bad, because they're so tired of the hate they get. Same goes for skinny girls lashing out on bigger girls, it's a vicious circle. It's somewhat understandable but still wrong. Accept your body for what it is and try to look for someone who accepts it too. Not everyone will like it or think it's attractive, and that's fine. People are allowed to have their preferences. What's important is that you still like it no matter what, and that you choose a partner who likes it just as much as you do.8