I am mixed with Jamaican Mexican and white and I don't know if Its just the area I live in or something but a lot of guys dont find black girls attractive which made me feel insecure about my race because I look more black than any of my other races. Also I'm always compared to the stereotypical "black girl" they say i wear a weave when I don't or I do or should do certain things cuz "I'm black" which really pisses me off. Plus a couple of guys I know have even said they don't like black girls or would never date them.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm white. I noticed that only black and mixed girls seem to talk and/or look at me. That got me into focusing more on them which got me more attracted to black and mixed girls. Anyway, no need to feel insecure about yourself. People can say whatever they want. Where you live plays a role but that doesn't make you better or worse than the rest. If those couple of guys said they don't like or would never date your race simply means that they are not interested. Their words don't apply to everyone else. Every person has his/her own preferences. And that includes you. So don't let their words or the actions of those around you mess you up. Look for someone you have an interest in and they have an interest in you.0
Most Helpful Girl
i'm black too and i say that we should be proud of our race; they will always be stereotypes such as 'black girls are always angry' or such nonsense but take no notice. don't let society define what or who we are or what or who we should be. it's our choice.
every girl of every race is beautiful no matter what.1