I'm not waxed because the skin "down there" is too sensitive so therefore I can't get a bikini wax or ANY kind of wax for that matter. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend who has seen me naked and I'm super paranoid that once a guy sees my downstairs he's gonna be like "You're not waxed? Ew." and leave or break up with me or something stupid like that. So I wanna know if guys really care that much about it or not. PLEASE HELP!
Most Helpful Guy
Of course it is your choice. Some will tell you that if it is a deal breaker with a guy, then he is not worth it. That is probably true. But a guy can still have a strong preference. For me, a woman's vulva is beautiful and extremely arousing. Having a full bush hides that, so I do not like full bushes. The barer the better. But if a woman trims that hair, then the beauty and arousal is there to see and that is good enough for me.
The other point about this is for oral sex. When one performs oral, he (or she) does not want to fight loose hairs in the mouth. Keeping it bare or trimmed solves that problem. So with sensitive skin you probably cannot shave either, so just trimming it will take care of those problems.2
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Most Helpful Girl
I'm actually surprised how many men really care! But I'm not going bare for anyone.
Besides it being uncomfortable as your skin sticks together (and sweating in areas you should never sweat during the summer), it looks terrible. You look like a prepubescent girl!! No thanks.
I tend to either trim pretty low and shapely until it's soft and pretty with a small feminine region electric razor (don't know what they're called lol!), or do a landing strip with my normal shaver if I'm trying to be quick.
Definitely have to clean up my panty line all the time though. That looks terrible if you don't. And full bush is not super attractive to me either.
Basically, I do what I find hot. If you look fuckable to yourself... than you should look fuckable to the guy you like. Or find someone who agrees with that. ;)
My ex would constantly make comments about how I'd "look better with a tattoo", should "shave a bit more down there", etc. Honestly, if a guy is worried about petty stuff like that, when you're already hot, and YOU know it... There are probably some issues with him.
Td;lr : Do what makes you feel sexy; do what you think looks nice. Boys that care, won't care.1