i feel like i became insecure because my father always made me feel worthless/useless, he's always verbally abused me and he hits me for the dumbest reasons he's a control freak and a germaphobe reminds me of hitler sometimes, plus im a bit "special/slow learner" i think i might be autistic and dont know it all i know is my mind processes everything slowly and i have an short attention span... no guy ever dates me or takes me seriously cause i have no freedom or a job oe life experience and i've fallen inlove maybe twice in my life but never had a happy love life... it makes me insecure, i have no motivation what so ever, so much failure in life made me pesimist and lazy, or maybe my laziness made me become a failure well point is IM VERY VERY INSECURE, are you and what made you that way?
Most Helpful Guy
I think everyone is insecure in their own way - I have a stutter which obviously becomes worse when I am worked up or nervous. When I was younger especially in my teens and early adult life I would be worried that people would think I was stupid because of the stutter and the nerves would make it way worse - Now I am older and not as aware of the stutter and you would hardly notice it, I only trip up over the odd word, I still have a bit of trouble on phone oddly when speaking I much prefer face to face contact.1
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like when I do feel insecure its because whilst in high school I was only liked for the physical sense of me, whats on the outside and that people didn't actually want to get to know me (boys) and as a grew up it really hit me when I got my first long term boyfriend in high school, I thought I was finally happy someone who knew me inside and out, turns out I guess he wasn't happy with something because he cheated on me a bunch. So now I'm always questioning why people want to hang out with me or like me etc It makes me extremely insecure when i'm vulnerable.1