Everybody I know has fat-shamed me at some point. Telling me ineed to lose weight and that I'm a disappointment and blah blah blah. But when I posted a pic on here, everyone said I wasn't fat. Im confused. They're not shitty people (not all of them) and I'm so stuck between relapsing into my ED because of this confusion. The people who know me are always trying to get me to lose weight. Saying that I need to lose at least 15 lbs. the people who don't know me and just see a pic I post say I look perfect. Which ones are the creeps and how am I supposed to know and be able to tell the difference? (I'm very autistic and this is too much for me to comprehend)
I'm not looking for fake ass compliments or anyone trying to get off. I just really need true honesty.
Most Helpful Guy
I know I'm fat when either I have trouble tying my shoes or I can't button and zip my pants up.2
Most Helpful Girl
People telling you to lose wight need to go suck a slug. Like the really gross disgusting ones so that they look as gross as they sound.
*You* are the one who gets to decide if your want to lose wight or not. No one else. Does your body do what you want? Does it take you where you want to go? Great! Then no one can take that from you. Just keep on being awesome regardless of assholes.1