People are always telling me how pretty I am. I moved to a new state which meant a new high school and literally every guy wanted to talk to me. I then had to transfer to a new high school and the same thing happened. I always get cat called or stared at whenever I go out. Yet, I don't feel pretty. I don't know what everyone else is seeing. I honestly don't see it when I look in the mirror. Sometimes I want to just cry. Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal for me to feel this way?
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You're not alone, I feel the same way- it's how I've always felt. I was always been labelled the "pretty girl" at school/college and I always get attention wherever I go, BUT I hate the way I look. I have major self confidence issues. So much so, that I won't get in to a relationship.
I think the problem is that because our whole lives we've been told we look good, we've set even higher goals for ourselves, physically. It's like when rich people still try to get even richer.
The best advise I can give, is stop focusing on your physical appearance, and work on whats between your ears. There are millions of gorgeous girls, but the majority are vapid. Just work on being an intelligent human being. Beauty + brains = the ultimate :)0