Most Helpful Guy
You can become more secure and confident for simply accepting yourself the way you are. You can still work on the things that are fixable.
Honestly - I have dated a few "heavy set" gals in my life. What was amazing to me is that they were incredibly confident, nonetheless. They'd totally run around naked in front of me in the apartment - weren't afraid one bit to expose themselves to me - didn't hide anything. They knew they weren't Marilyn Monroe... I knew they weren't... and they knew that I knew they weren't. They just knew they were special in their own way (and they were correct).
THAT - is sexy!0
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Most Helpful Girl
A reason could be that some men like women that can exude confidence because it can show them that they are comfortable in their body and in the choices they make. Confidence can also lead to success later on in life, such as nailing an interview for the job that you've always wanted. There are many different ways that you can become more secure and confident. Pick out some clothes and figure out which ones YOU think flatter you the best. Don't worry about what others would think. Wear that outfit and show that you are confident. Another way is to think about the positive side of things. Don't look for the negative in situations or yourself, look for the positive. Also, even if you aren't feeling that secure, wear a smile. A smile is your best accessory, so wear it everyday :).0