Hi so this is not an attention seeking post, I really do have a hard time accepting the way I look so please no hate.
Im an 18 year old girl, 5'4, and according to my BMI, I'm basically obese. Which I have a hard time understanding I mean yes I don't like my body and I don't like my arms sometimes but I don't see myself anywhere near "obese". I workout at least 3 times a week and I have a healthy diet. Although, I have for the past year gained too much weight. I come from a line of curvy women so I have hips, ass and boobs in a "big" amount and I'm short so... But I'm meeting my long distance boyfriend in about 7 months and I'm so nervous about my body and even though he says he loves it I just can't accept it myself. I'm driving myself insane with the way I compare myself to girls on Instagram and in real life. It's affecting me way too much.
But what do you think, in all honesty, what is my body type?
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Those are really bad pictures but from what I can see in the second picture there is absolutely no way you are obese. Make sure your bmi is calculated correctly. Not accepting your body is gonna hurt you. You need to understand that if you care about your body, you work out, you eat healthy, etc. then you should be proud of your lifestyle in terms of your body health because you clearly care about it and are moving forward. Accepting your body will give you a big confidence boost which will help in other categories too. It will make your life better. So accept it. And be proud to be meeting your boyfriend.1