I know that we are taught not to judge a book based on its cover, but i'm really curious as to what your first thoughts of me would be. Haha maybe you don't have any "first thoughts" but i'm just wondering what kind of vibe i'm putting out into the world lol so please be honest and let me know your first thoughts... good or bad :)
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There doesn't have to be a face-contorting, ear-to-ear beam of blinding white glow coming from a Chesire smile that leaves only slits for eyes because the breadth of uplifted jowls overtakes the cheeks, now far below them... to be able to tell if a smile comes easily to someone.
You look comfortable in your smile. Like it's a familiar expression.
I don't think you would not be pretty if you didn't smile.
But here... you're beautiful.
The not-judging-a-book-by-it's-cover thing is one end of spectrum.
The Guys-base-everything-on-looks is the other end of it.
Despite all the conditioning our society attempts to instill and unfairly stereotype, Visual Impression is still in our instincts. Our domestication has weened us of many of our Primeval instincts. Yet, in making assumptions by appearance alone, that we can't clearly define, can not measure within fixed parameters and it's having varying degrees of influence on our assessments... is still alive and kicking, no matter how much we want to deny it or attempt to teach it away. It comes from instincts rooted in self-preservation.