I am neither alpha nor beta but tending to beta, but if i work hard from right NOW, can i make it work? I turned 20 just yesterday and I H A T E the 20 yr old me
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not really a fan of the 20 year old me either. Hopefully 21 is better and I'll be that in February. I want to be more physically fit and confident but overall I'm more alpha. Hopefully I can work on these things in time. I'm sure you can make it work too.0
Most Helpful Guy
You can do this but it requires the most important things: will power and self discipline. Cannot be emphasized enough.
One drawback is in this process you will lose a piece of yourself. That's a given. You will need to sacrifice parts of your personality and life to get to where you want to be. There's a price to be paid for everything.
Consistency is key. If you fall, and you will, you must keep moving forward.
I'm a firm believer that you must still have an outlet for your betaness at times, to let your guard down. A drawback about alphaness is that to keeppushing fwd is emotionally eexhausting.0