I was working on a group project with my group members. There's a guy in my class who really likes talking to me, and he was also in the same group with me. He has a girlfriend and his girlfriend doesn't like me ( guess from when she looks at me ) after our project was done, he wanted to walk me home. He was not trying to flirt at all. We were just walking and talking about something general. That night- his girlfriend texted me on Facebook said " my boyfriend is so stupid for leaving me for an ugly bit*h like you " honestly, I was so mad that a person I never really had a convo with called me a bit*h. ( ugly bit*h ) she's a white girl and he is also a white guy. I am an Asian girl which probably was the reason she called me ugly! I would like to know if white girls really think an Asian girl like me ugly. I always think that I am an average looking girl and my white female friends never called me ugly. ( not sure if it's because they are my friends, so. They don't wanna hurt my feelings ) I think it's just that girl or I am being biased to myself? I'm feeling insecure now. I tried to think it's because she was angry, but this still keeps bothering me. Please be honest, I'd love to know if I am ugly, so I will stop thinking I am average. ( If it's true, I won't be mad )
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Everyone's going to have different opinions, so I think you should focus on the fact that clearly, lots of people do find you pretty (including me)! The most beautiful women in the world are still considered "ugly" by a few people; it's impossible to please everyone.
Honestly, the girl who messaged you probably only called you ugly because she was trying to hurt you. It's why skinny girls get called fat during fights, too. They're obviously not fat, but it's an attack on self-esteem. So this girl was just trying to attack your self-esteem.5