The other day I was told that, just by looking at me, he could tell that I'm a sweet, kind person. I might be overthinking it, but I just can't be completely happy about it. I'm thinking that me appearing "sweet and kind" is one of the reasons why I get stepped all over and taken advantage of...
See my profile pic (up close, the resize looks funny). Do you think this is true? Is there anything I can do to change this?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you look like a bad ass1
Most Helpful Girl
Well, you're smiling in your pic.
That definitely lightens up a person's facial expression.
I'd have to see you in person to know if you look " too nice"
There's nothing wrong with appearing that way.
People usually form a first impression off of someone.
That is the impression you probably give off to a lot of people.
Whether being "too nice" is actually true.. depends on your character.
Are you the type to let people walk all over you?
Do you allow yourself to be a door mat to others?
Do you not stand up for yourself?
If that's the case it is true.
No one is saying, go around looking like you want to kill someone.
But definitely, stand up for yourself in your time of need.
That way people will know don't be fooled by what you "think" about someone.
Just because someone appears "too nice" doesn't mean they don't have the balls to stand up for themselves.0