Sometimes I feel "curvy" and other times I feel Pudgy. My boyfriend and my Best friend both tell me I have a nice sexy body but they say I'm curvy or thick.. which just feels like a euphamism for fat? I'm not really sure what to believe... I've had other guys tell me I'm sexy too but it's usually at a party and they're obviously just trying to get laid.
I also have some love handles and stretch marks... and they make me a little insecure. For referance sake I'm about 5'3 and my measurments are 36/28/38.. so I'm pretty "curvy/thick/chubbby" espcecially for a "white girl'.. I don't know. I thought the older I got the less I'd care.. but I still feel like I'm in High School and everybody's giggling at the fat girl trying to squeeze into her jeans..
I'd post a picture but I'm really not comfortable with that, I don't know.. can guys really overlook a little tummy or some jiggly thighs? And girls.. how do you get over your insecurities?
Most Helpful Guy
Everybody has a different definition of what is curvy, what is fat. You may see what you are as one thing, someone else may see it as different. We really cannot tell by your definition. We can know that you are overweight, but not if it is what we might call "acceptable".
We can overlook some on the tummy and thighs. Again, different for different people.0
Most Helpful Girl
I get over my insecurities by playing into the funny fat girl cliche. Because someone will be so enamored by my humor and my amazing eyebrows one of these days they won't care that I've got a bit of pudge on the midsection.3