Most Helpful Girl
"I get very depressed about it all and have often contemplated suicide and have attempted self harm on numerous occasions."
This. this is what turns girls off. I think the problem you're having is that you're being too desperate. Honestly, life isn't about girls.
girls at bars and nightclubs are there because they want to have a good time. Try a coffee shop or a bookstore if you want to meet and talk to a girl.
But you should not be contemplating suicide because of your bad luck with women. Please seek a therapist.0