I took some boudoir photos for my husband for Christmas. He seemed to not care for them very much. That led to a conversation about how sexy I am. So I asked him to honestly rate me on a scale of 1 to 10. He then told me I'm a 5 at best and that I'm fat and he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I was skinnier when we got married but I just had a baby- his baby- and I haven't bounced back to normal yet. I'm not angry at him for his answer, after all I did ask him to be honest. However, his response has crushed my self-confidence. I always thought of myself as a relatively attractive woman- nice butt, big boobs, etc. So I guess I'm wondering if he's crazy or if I really am ugly? Please give your honest opinion.
Most Helpful Guy
Oh man, that's bad. I think you're pretty, I wouldn't have thought you had a kid. In light of that evidence I declare you to be a MILF!8
Most Helpful Girl
How can a man who loves you even try and rate you?
Also, after having a child he should be at least understandinh and if he doesn't like ur current weight, he should help u lose it, by being positive and encouraging and by maybe trying to exercise together.
Not by putting u down7