Ok to start out I'm 17 and 5'4 and believe it or not I only 128lbs so I'm not like obese. Thing is my ex told me that "no self respecting man would ever put up with a girl with a lard belly like yours." And he'd always make comments about my big gut. I just wanted to know if I really look that bad or ugly to you guys? Could you still be attracted to a girl with my body?
- It's not that bad.29% (13)21% (13)25% (26)Vote
- Still attractive!!!7% (3)25% (15)17% (18)Vote
- Guys don't care as much as you'd think.16% (7)11% (7)13% (14)Vote
- Ugly and fat.9% (4)11% (7)10% (11)Vote
- It's true, guys won't like that.18% (8)20% (12)19% (20)Vote
- I think you're fine, and normal! Stop worrying!21% (10)12% (7)16% (17)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Well you do have a little bit of a belly, but it's not that bad. **that's what I voted for ;)** And I'm sure there are plenty of guys that will find you attractive. Your ex obviously found you attractive since he dated you. But now that you broke up, he's just being a little bitch and that sounds like something he would say. He just needs to grow up and move on.
I will throw this out there though, and please don't criticize. I would recommend you to start getting in shape and eating a little healthier, especially if you're feeling self-conscious about it. And I'm not just recommending it for weight loss, but because it's the right thing to do. Everybody should exercise and eat right to stay healthy. Nothing but benefits will come out of it!
I also agree with the others that are saying your pants are too small and tight. Even your thighs are sticking out past the diameter of your shorts because they're so tight. You know the classic question "Does this make me look fat?" In this case yes, your shorts and pants are making you look fat, even though you yourself are not that bad.0
Most Helpful Girl
There is a very good reason why he's your ex. Jeez, what a cunt. Don't listen to that arse, your stomach is totally normal, though I agree with @etaine2908 that I think you're wearing the wrong size trousers. But that's something easily fixed by just buying bigger ones :P It's just that the ones you're wearing kinda squeeze your hips too much and make your stomach look worse than I think it actually is. But yah. Your ex is a twat and you have nothing to worry about.0