I am a south Asian female and I'm too scared to sleep with my boyfriend even though I want to because I'm worried that he might think I look disgusting down there.. lol. We have been together for a long time and have a lot of fun together. I'm scared he might think I'm unattractive afterward. I have light brown/tan skin and its dark down there. I got very occupied with this and read a bunch of posts online and a lot of guys think its disgusting, apparently pink color ones are the best!! It is sorta making me hate myself. Is there anyway to make it match my skin color? This has realllly been bothering me and I'm worried about what my boyfriend will think of me since most guys see pornstar vaginas.
Most Helpful Guy
Pretty much any guy who is dating an Asian girl with tan skin would have the sense to expect a vagina that matches. You are worrying about nothing. More important to keep what you have neat and attractive.2
Most Helpful Girl
First of all you are naturally awesome and amazing just the way you are. And since your vagina is a part you it is also naturally awesome and amazing just the way it is!
Next, the boys who have an entire freaking list of things a vagina has to look like are always the ones who have never seen a real vagina. The closest they've gotten to one is porn which is why they have stupid ideas about what vaginas should and should not look like. Don't listen to them. They're stupid.
And lastly if your boyfriend thinks your natural and amazing vagina is anything other than one of the best things ever, he's not good enough for you or your vagina anyway.
So! No more worrying about your undeniable amazingness! Be proud of your vagina!7