I've seen it a lot on here. A dude comments that he doesn't like fat girls, he gets so many bad comment and dislikes but when a girl says it no one bats an eyelash.
Most Helpful Guy
I think it just depends on who the audience was at the time the statement was made. I've seen that too but I have also seen it in the reverse before.2
Most Helpful Girl
It's not that.
It's how the guy says it: "fat chicks are gross and they need to stop trying to convince the world they're sexy and go hit a gym."
That's not the same as: "I am not particularly attracted to obese men/women".
There are guys who are respectful about it, as there are women who are disrespectful about how they express this. And rarely do I see anyone downvote or bash someone for stating it without putting fat people down.
But I find typically, not just on this site but other internet sites and irl, men are more harsh how they go about expressing their physical dislikes.5