I have stretch marks from having my baby. I had a flat stomach before getting pregnant and so I think because I got so big and my stomach stretched from being flat to being huge that's why my stretch marks are so bad. I do have a good body and a pretty face and a great personality and im not being cocky just confident. So if you met me and ended up really liking me and we ended up having sex or something would seeing these completely turn you off? Pregnancy is a beautiful thing and these are proof that my body changed for my beautiful baby but I just want perspectives on the question I asked. Please refrain from unneeded mean comments but do be honest. Thank you.
- You had a baby.. It's a beautiful thing. They don't bother me.43% (10)48% (21)46% (31)Vote
- They absolutely bother me17% (4)25% (11)22% (15)Vote
- Doesn't matter as long as you have a great personality35% (8)16% (7)22% (15)Vote
- I would never date somebody with stretch marks like this.5% (1)11% (5)10% (6)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
My girlfriend has something similar and maybe a bit more both on the stomach shape and stretch marks. We've been together almost 9 years now. She used to be conscious about it for various reasons about me more than just her body. But she realized later after a long time that I'm just nuts about everything on her body as much as about her. All this was more of a turn on for me than anything else.
Lately she's increasingly possessive, insecure and suffocating. Tried explaining it to her but nothing changes. THIS is putting me off BIG TIME.
End of the day it's all about what's up the mind and how comfortable people are with each other. Body never really figures beyond that.
This is how it's with me. Not speaking for others.
I'd vote 'E' if it says 'Those are simply awesome and marvelous / attractive'2
Most Helpful Girl
They're a symbol of the life you've lived and the amazing and precious life you've brought into the world. If someone doesn't appreciate how awesome that is, are they really good enough to see your body let alone be in your life?2