What makes a guy/girl unattractive to YOU?

Make a list with a minimum of 5 traits (physical or mental)

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seriously
got anything that just BUGS YOU

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Most Helpful Girl

  • -arrogant
    -When the guy is too needy/clingy
    - self centered
    - agrees to everything & and changes mind every five minutes or so depending on who he's talking to
    - not honest
    - racist
    - not respectful

    Physical
    - overweight
    - yellow teeth
    - bad hygiene

    That's pretty much it for me.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Physical:
    1. Unhealthy
    2. Fat
    3. Bad hygiene
    4. Poorly groomed

    Mentally:
    1. Dull
    2. Boring
    3. Racist
    4. Lacks emotional expression
    5. Dumb/not intelligent

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What Girls Said 26

  • Arrogant
    Selfish
    Looks down on people or talks down to them
    Lack of empathy
    Disloyal... in anyway at all
    Laughs at other people's expense
    Cruel to animals

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  • Guys who don't have a sense of humor.
    Blonde hair I'm sorry I have never been attracted to guys with blonde hair
    A guy who isn't smart enough to hold a decent conversation I'm not saying he needs to be the next Einstein I'm just saying he can't be so dumb that he can't follow a thing I say (i know a guy like that)
    Guys that don't take care of themselves I hope that doesn't sound shallow but he can't smoke or do drugs and he has to keep up with his physical appearance because if he doesn't that shows that he doesn't care about himself enough.
    Guys that don't like kids, if they call them pests or a nuisance I find that to be a big turn off for me because I love kids and a guy who doesn't isn't right for me
    Guys without life goals, I know what I want in life and I don't like to deal with bullshit I like a straight forward guy who knows what he wants
    Laziness kinda ties into that because a lazy man is a man with no goals in life and that's just not a likeable trait in anybody.
    Guys that don't care about anyone but themselves, if I see a guy who is an arrogant douche bag that doesn't care about anyone's feeling then I know that he can't give me the attention I need in a relationship. In not a clingy person but I don't have a great family so the guy I date would be more of a family so he needs to be caring.
    Ok I could think of more but I think that enough lol

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  • Physical
    -very short
    -overweight
    -long hair (usually not always)
    -bad hygiene
    -bad teeth
    -overgrown crazy unibrown shit
    -weird puffy girly nipples (for some reason this is somewhat common?)

    Personality
    -racist
    -selfish
    -condescending
    -hot headed
    -unintelligent
    -compulsive lying
    -materialistic, ostentatious

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  • Here we go
    Physical:
    - Shorter than me
    - No facial hair at all
    - Severe Acne and Bad teeth
    - Long hair
    - Blonde hair (sometimes looks good, but most of the time not attracted to blonde hair)
    - Very dirty and bad teeth (oh boy how do you expect me to kiss you)
    - Very pouty lips
    - Bad Hygiene
    - Too fat, too skinny
    - Unibrow
    Mental:
    - Arrogant
    - Not Protective and at least a bit jealous
    - Effeminate, I WANT YOU TO SMELL LIKE TESTOSTERONE
    - Stupid and can't carry a conversation
    - Not funny
    - Doesn't know how to treat a lady
    - Not respectful
    - Asexual, I want to have sex with you in the future darling.

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    • Oh and Baldness :-(

    • You was good until you mentioned baldness :( I think I will go bald in the future cox of my genes BUT whyy they r only genes 😛

  • 1) Arrogance
    2) Racist/sexist
    3) Selfish
    4) Untrustworthy
    5) Argumentative

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    • Oh sorry, forgot to add 6) substance abuse / excess illicit drug use. I could make an exception for someone who wanted to stop and needed help.
      7) passionately anti- religion (chill atheists are cool though, I'm talking about people who are assholes about it)

    • What do you mean argumentative. i suppose untrustworthy is the best one, where there is no trust there is no relationship.

    • @TimeSplitters123 True, trust is essential. By argumentative, I mean turns everything into a heated discussion and always has to be right/have the last say. I've had roommates and acquaintances like that, it was far too stressful for me to handle. It takes the warmth out of a relationship and makes me afraid to share an opinion. Not exactly a safe space. I'd rather it be peaceful most times and arguments only sometimes especially if necessary.

  • Mental:

    Rude
    No sense of humor
    Controlling
    Disloyal
    No ambition
    Narrow minded
    Liar

    Physical:

    Overly muscular
    Short/tiny girl body
    Bad hygiene

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  • Physical traits
    1. tall
    2 & 3. muscular but not too wide
    4. a youthful face with few wrinkles
    5. a nose that isn't too big and evenly shaped

    Personal traits
    1. A leader in some way
    2. Shrewd and knows how to deal with people - easy going and pleasant / funny
    3. passive but confident and strong
    4. gracious and kind
    5. Happy and able to appreciate life

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  • Mental:
    - Bad hygiene
    - Serious-ness I need someone who is funny and can amuse me
    - Some1 who doesn't protect me
    - Some1 who has no common sense/dumb
    - Animal hating
    - Hot-headed

    Physical (not that it really matters buuuut):
    - Some1 who's shorter then me
    - Tattoos
    - Piercings
    - Unnatural hair colors
    - Smoking
    - Drugs etc..

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  • looks messy or dirty or bad hygiene
    condescending arrogant type personality
    boring and not interesting conversationalist
    insecure or complaining about his body
    not a sexual person

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  • Physical: shorter than me, overweight, bad hygiene, unnatural hair color, ear gauges.

    Mental: very conservative (racist, homophobic etc.), jelaous and controling, lack of ambition, selfish.

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  • Hate it when guys use girls, brag about things they don't possess, flirt with everyone, make every girl feel like their special to him, make fun of people, and I HATE IT WHEN GUYS COMPLAIN ABOUT PERIODS LIKE UM

    okay. I don't like it when girls roll their eyes at other girls for no reason, when girls think too highly of themselves ("i am the queen and everyone sucks and i'm the best), when girlies brag about being tomboys, and stuff like that

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  • Guys who aren't Christian
    Guys who smoke
    Guys who drink
    Guys who do drugs
    Guys who are really cocky and arrogant

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  • acts like a macho,
    He is too insecure, shy, doesn't know what he wants
    Lack of ambition
    Boring
    doesn't know how to flirt
    arrogant
    selfish
    agressive
    Bold or too long hair
    very short
    overweight
    moustache
    dresses badly
    too old

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    • i like ur response, but what do u mean by moustache?

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    • I mean only a moustache , I don't mind beard but i really don't like moustache,

    • What qualifies as very short in your opinion?

  • Ignorance.
    Plain. Bold. And Simple.

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  • -ignorance
    -lack of personal hygiene
    -impolite
    -dense. mentally.
    -darting eyes...

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  • Identifies as a hippie
    Mental illness
    Disrespectful
    Childish
    Lacks responsibility
    Untrustworthy
    Bad with money.. etc

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  • Too big
    Bad hygiene
    Verbally abusive
    Asshole
    Lazy

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  • Rude
    Bad Teeth
    Bad Hygeine
    Islamophobic
    No sense of humor
    Goal less

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  • No humor
    Lazy
    Doesn't like kids
    Or family
    Self-centered
    Doesn't like animal
    Long hair
    Mean
    Cusses too much
    Not christian
    Cocky

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  • mentally:
    -no ambition in life
    -unintelligent
    -no sense of humor
    -isnt trying to better them selves

    physically:
    -no facial
    -no muscle on their bodies
    -has bad BO
    -doesnt know how to dress them selves

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  • Nasty teeth and nasty attitude.

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  • 1. Gross/thin/shameful looking facial hair (like if you can't grow a beard then don't do any of the half and half business just clean shave it!) tbh I don't like beards in general or facial hair really.
    2. Stuck up/thinks he's too 'nice' to talk to certain girls or only talks to a particular type of girl
    3. Cockiness
    4. Bad hygiene
    5. Rude

    (I've noticed there's a guy who's downvoting every girls comment? A but unnecessary lmao)

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  • Smile, caring, blah blah... Well how about money joking

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  • Lies and hidden secrets for a long time

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  • Arrogance
    Ignorance
    Liars
    Cruelty
    Lack of Intelligence
    Rude
    Hypocrites
    Bad personal Hygiene
    And the list goes on...

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  • -short
    -trying to be class clown
    -has bad hygiene
    -dresses badly
    -overweight

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What Guys Said 17

  • Narrow minded
    Lack of hygiene
    Stuck up
    Illogical
    Wishy washy
    Addiction to alcohol, drug or partying
    Extremely religious
    Prudish

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  • Bad taste in music
    Fat
    Whiny SJW
    Generic (lives for social media, fashion, etc.)
    Pursuing a dead-end career, or none at all
    Loud
    Religious/follows other superstitions

    And many more I can't think of right now.

    That probably sounds overly picky, but that's just for long-term relationships. Low key, I'll bang most anything on two legs.😏

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  • Here are mine:
    - Grossly fat/overweight
    - Poor hygiene
    - Poorly groomed
    - Stuck up
    - Rude
    - Selfish
    - Gold digger
    - Expecting too much of me while not putting in enough

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  • -Fat
    -Stupid
    -Too emotional
    -Cusses a lot
    -Doesn't act like a girl
    -Being unserious at all times

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    • Lol who is that guy that keeps on down voting everyone...

  • Fat
    Smokes
    Ugly face
    Disproportionate body
    Does stupid things

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  • Not showering or not looking fresh

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  • >Being fat
    >Being over 30
    >Being a Muslim
    >Calling my car 'cute'
    >That last one again

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  • unhealthy
    she doesn't listen to those around her
    she isn't respectufl
    she is judgmental
    she is dishonest

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  • For women:
    torso tattoos
    Square jaws
    Apathy
    Laziness

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  • Bad hygiene, not friendly (includes being dishonest and too self-centred among other things), smoking/taking drugs/drinking habit, too muscular/skinny/fat but probably would overlook this, bad habits like swearing and spitting is a big one

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  • Anything sub 7/10

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  • If she asks why I drive a truck...
    If she couldn't hand me any wrench I ask for
    If she can't drive my truck
    If she's too fat to get into my truck
    Asking dumb questions (24/7)
    If she doesn't drink beer

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  • Lack of purpose

    Lack of Dedication

    etc.

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  • If she is psycho
    Mean
    Unpolite
    Lack of respect
    And lack off care towards people

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  • not fit (skinny or fat)
    smoker
    stupid
    mean
    not clean

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  • feminists
    Women who have abortions or agree with abortions
    Women who whine about racism, homophobia, sexism, because they normally do the same to men and the mentally disabled
    Women who try and copy men and compete with men

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  • Hairy pu$$y
    Saggin boobs
    bad attitude
    bad hygiene
    Not blonde

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