Im open to everyone and I've even told this guy straight up that I want him like sexually but he doesn't want me, no guys like me and I feel so unnoticed And unwanted, like I don't see why I even bother to do my makeup my hair etc, I want people to b honest... am I ugly because I get told I'm pretty but then how come no one wants me? And I'm not just trying to get attention I am 100% no guys want me I'm really upset
Most Helpful Guy
It's because you come across as "too available". So starting today, (if you're up for it) You're going to hold back on the "direct approach" with guys like you mentioned. When you're older, the men appreciate when a woman "tells it like it is" just like you tried to do. But you're dealing with teenage boys who haven't learned how to be men yet, so the two of you are speaking two different languages at this point. All young guys of your age are attention whores. And it sounds like they are taking you for granted and almost dismissing your advances. Sooooo stop initiating the conversations, stop initiating any physical touch or acknowledgement of their presence when they walk into the room or area you're in.
*(I'm not suggesting the silent treatment)*
I'm just suggesting changing your responses to their behavior. The guys obviously are expecting you to respond to what they say or do by responding with X, Y, or Z. So don't respond those ways anymore. As soon as they see that you aren't hanging on them, or their every word, I guarantee you will have their full attention and will be the one pursued instead.
Most Helpful Girl
Because getting male attention is not something girls are entitled to. It's not like all you have to do is sit there and look pretty to warrant getting their attention... it may work sometimes, but you know what they'll be looking for and that's more than likely not to get to know your personality better.
Instead of working on improving your physical appearance, work on becoming more personable. Coming off more approachable to guys, or hey, I don't know; maybe approaching them once in a while!7