Okay i promise this the last time im gonna post a pic of myself lol. But i wonder why i never get approached. I honestly thought i wasn't bad looking, if anything i was at least decent. But i only got flirted with four times in my life, and nobody has everasked me out or approached me and im eighteen. Out of eighteen years nobody never says anything to me. Im not mean or anything, im actually a bit shy and i just be quiet and stay myself but im chill and laid back, not weird or strange acting. So the only conclusion i can come up with is maybe i just not as good looking as i thought. You guys tell me what you think please
Most Helpful Guy
Well, you already know I think you're very attractive, but maybe the vibe you give off to some people is that you're mean.
You looked better when you're smiling, so maybe you don't smile too much? I don't know.
Maybe your body language is not open, meaning that it projects that you don't wanna be approached.
Also if you don't do stuff on your own and are always with friends, that also pushes guys away cause they won't approach you if you're with friends.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ironically it's harder for the prettier ones like you. You need to learn when to encourage the right ones, how to flirt just enough to give them courage. You may need to approach them yourself. It's one of the hottie curses. When you're prettier you have to be nicer to other women so they don't hate you and friendlier to the meeker men because that's who you want0