Hi, I am a girl, 17 years old. I am a bubbly, extravert person, always happy. I love sports, I like to laugh, I like humor. I am not a lonely person. I actually have a lot of friends, but still, sometimes, I feel unhappy about the way I look. And that is not because I think so, it actually is because some of my friends say so (I am one of the guys, so they don't mind saying that). The weird thing is, when going on a holiday, or at least when I am away from school, guys seem to look at me, they seem to like/love me. My question is not if I am really ugly or not, because you can't see me. My question is if you ever thought of a girl as ugly, but for example, you're friends did not. Or, if you are a girl, have you ever been called ugly, although you have had or where in a relationship? I am confused, because I am told that I am ugly, but I am also told that I look average or even pretty. Maybe you recognize this, and if you do, please answer.
I am to be found ugly by many people, but also to be found pretty (and not only by my mother). Recognizible?
What Guys Said 3
Actually, this happens to me, haha. I get some people that think I'm really hot, and others that think I'm ugly as sin, and it seems like it's most often one extreme or the other- I've don't usually get anyone thinkin anywhere in between. Personally, I don't like the way I look either, but it's started growing on me, I guess. Maybe it's your general style or something? I know I turn some people off with my dark clothing and metal shirts and shit, so could be something along the way you dress, do your makeup/hair, etc. Hope that helps!1
If a guy ever calls you ugly then he's just an asshole. I'm sure you look lovely. Don't let the opinions of other people judge you. It's your body and you'll have it for the rest of your life. Learn to love your body and maybe the right guy will come along.0
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