Is it safe to label or assume it must be because they're unattractive? I've never been liked by a girl or had a girl show interest in me ever and I'm almost 30. Confidence and game can only take you so far, but there are guys who actually can't get a girl to like them even if they're confident. Looks is still a big factor. I mean I've stayed fit (not buff though), dressed fine, good hygiene, etc and approached girls the same way as other guys did with success confidently in the past yet none of the girls ever showed interest. I never felt like I was unattractive though but since girls never made me feel like I was attractive, does that mean I'm automatically unattractive? I'm not looking to date anymore but I'm still not sure if that makes a person unattractive or not. So is every person who has always been ignored by the opposite sex or same sex if they are gay automatically unattractive? What do you think?
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No. It could just be location.
A friend of mine is a gorgeous dark skinned woman and she's had trouble finding attention from the opposite sex in her area. Of course, she grew up in a racist southern town. Doesn't mean she's unattractive (because good lord she isn't) just means she came up in an area of shitheads.1