I'm a bigger girl I have a boyfriend of 6 years + 1kid... I'm just embarrassed to go out with him or be around his coworkers/ friends. I feel like I will be judged for being his fat girlfriend. I think too much what people think I know but how can I feel more comfortable around people and go out more from a guys point of view. (I do work out and diet so I'm trying) 😬 & that's a bathing suit I wouldn't actually wear that out 😒
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He's with you for 6+ years and your worried about what OTHER PEOPLE THINK?
To hell with other people.
To hell with what they may or may not think.
Be proud of yourself.
Show your guy your happy with your relationship (you are happy right... I mean 6 years is a long time) by being proud to be in public with him.
You are acting like you don't deserve him.
Think what that says about his judgement. You're saying that he is wrong to want you as his girl. His history with you should put the lie to that.
Put value in your relationship.
Do that by valuing yourself.
Imagine your child thinking the same way about himself/herself. Now realize that your child learns from you by your example.3
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