I'll keep it brief, I'm self conscious of how I look because I lost my hair at 18 to a scalp issue, so NOTE I cannot grow hair, it's mostly gone on top and I shave the thin stuff that's left, I worry as I have high standards on a girls looks and admit physicality is a must so please just be honest, I really just want to know where I stand, I put a poll but would appreciate responses as well. Would no hair bother you?
- Results21% (7)
- I do not find you attractive, and wouldn't be interested sorry12% (4)
- While you don't look bad, I really can't get past the fact you've lost your hair33% (11)
- I find you attractive and would date a guy who looked like you, I wouldn't mind the no hair.21% (7)
- Other (please explain)13% (4)
Most Helpful Girl
You are attractive, even very extra attractive, but you will draw more attention, so its both good or bad ( depending on you ) meaning that many girls think and wonder how will others view their boyfriend. ( and we often care about this more than how we view him lol )
so... you just need to project a strong confidence and you'll pick and chose, and you'll find that having no hair is a big advantage, and very few men can draw attention like you
its not just your lack of hair, you have kinda beautiful eyes and fine bone structure, you will always draw attention and mostly in a good way.
in any case, having no hair for a man is never ugly or bad in a direct way, what is ugly is when a man is balding and starts to turn all insecure and his preception gets warped, he starts to do strange things with his hair... when he should just cut it very short or shave it and love how easy and simple and clean it is.. and women respond because its the truth and the guy knows it too
but very few men will believe at heart into this type of advice, they just get down and feel like its a negative, its very hard to understand, but that attitude they adopt is whats ugly and its nothing at all to do with them.
If you were a vegan, and have a kind heart and seem happy, you'd be one of my most ideal picks based on looks.. and im being very honest, and if you had hair, you'd fall back into the average category and would lack that sexy draw which you do have now.
just be your best, be happy, you have no disadvantage at all, you have an advantage and you'll see that for sure by the quality of women you attract... espically when you're older... young age really works against a guy ^^ but that will pass :)