I'm almost 30 and I've never had one girl like me. I've approached many girls in my life but got rejected by all. I grew up in mostly a white and black mixed area by Detroit and never got attention from girls, even though I made a lot of friends and hung out with many guys who got attention from tons of girls. Guys always told me I looked fine, dressed nice and I should have no problem attracting girls but that never happened.
For the past 5 years, I've been in East Asia and it's obviously filled with all Asian women with a lot of European foreigners and neither the Asian women nor the European foreigners seem to give me a chance. Many don't even believe I'm American when I tell them even though I have an American accent just because I don't look like an ideal American (white). Asian girls love white guys though.
And whenever I ask a how do I look question here, it's just guys who answer and girls never do when I try to seek their answers the most. So what's the deal here? Have I been unlucky because I haven't been around any girl of my own race or b/c I'm ugly? I'm aware that brown skinned Indian guys aren't really appealing to most girls but is it really this bad? I know girls will ignore this question as usual of mine on here but I'd like honest answers. You can be anonymous but please answer.
Most Helpful Girl
I think you look like a pretty cool guy actually. I'm sorry I don't have a good answer for your question. I think you may be right in assuming that girls there just aren't into brown guy although I think that's so stupid of them.1
Most Helpful Guy
I honestly haven't a clue maybe there is something in your theory that girls feel more comfortable with guys of their own race or their society has favoured white guys - Have you tried talking to Indian girls online to see what reaction you get from them to see is there anything in your theory - What about a dating site/app where you get matched beforehand, you might have an advantage there.0