Why do people feel the need to ask others if they are pretty, sexy, hot, ugly, fat, skinny, funny etc? Does it really matter what others think of you? Did your mum never tell you that you are beautiful? Or is it a trend, and everyone thinks they have to fit in? I have never been asked this question by my children, I tell them everyday how beautiful they are as individuals and it doesn't matter what others think... Be proud and happy of whom you are, as there is only one of you. Its called uniqueness, we all have it!!!
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You sound like a wonderful woman who affirms the individuality of her children but some aren't so lucky and society pounds young people with a "Looks Count" message so I am not surprised by the amount of "Am I?" and "Rate Me?" questions. We have to find a way to increase peoples' self esteem and self confidence but I personally believe it will be a slow process.2