I m around 5'5 tall, 120 pounds, I've got some really nice clothes and high heels (I work as a designer for a haute couture brand), I also like boxing and martial arts, most of my friends are guys, both my guy friends and girl friends think I 've got amazing personality and high EQ. But since I' m a bit chubby and I've got a round chubby face, 17 years in my life have passed and never had a date.
Last year I had a crush on a cute guy, he's cute looking and friendly, he also had a crush on me, but he never ask me out for date because he's more of a player, always dating tall slim girls. All my friends suggest me to lose weight and be more femine, some of them were straight forward and even told me I'm ugly compare to the popular girls he's dating, he'ill probably feel ashame for dating me. It sounds mean but guess it's the truth.
Seriously, is body shape more important than personality?
- I would date a chubby girl/guy as long as she/he has good personality.Vote A
- No, they disgust me.Vote B
- Depends on how chubby he/she is.Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly I dont think you are chubby, 5'5 and 120? That seems like a pretty normal weight to me. I am only 6 inches taller then you and I weigh 170, and I'm not chubby at all. If you were like 160 though then I would tell you to hit the gym, we all have our areas that we need to work on. I need to work on being nicer to people, some girls need to work on being less selfish, and fat girls need to lose weight. They have it easy, its hard for me to be nice when I am also very direct and honest, fat girls can just hit the gym and cut big macs and soda out of their diet and they will be good to go. Seriously though I dont think you are that fat, look up the normal weight range for your height and as long as you are in that you are good.2
Most Helpful Girl
The people who I thought were my friend told me the reason why I was so unlikeable was because I was overweight and crossed eyed. I didn't believe him and I honesty thought he was just taking out his ass but then I did lose weight and became skinny. And my eyes got corrected. feel like maybe in a sense he was right. Because ever since I was treated very differently. So I think most guys would not date a fat girl.0