My weight fluctuates. I'll have a flat stomach by the end of summer but I gain weight in the winter. Usually like 15/20 lbs by spring. I get attention from guys no matter my weight and I still feel good about myself so I've never cared about the fact my body does this. I drop weight in the summer drastically because I'm so active but I gain so easily because I hate the cold, I do practically no active things, and eat more. My metabolism is also very low it seems. I don't know anyone who gains and loses so much by season. I'm interested in how many people think that some weight is a problem. Even with 20lbs packed on I feel that I still have a decent body. But then again it doesn't just go to my belly it goes to my ass and boobs a little in my thighs. I also am lucky and don't look that heavy.
I won't workout. There will never be a gym membership for me. I hate working out to where I know I'm doing it, that's why I lose in the summer, because I can go camping, biking, swimming in a lake, hiking, playing sports, etc.
I've dated guys that are chubby and I've dated guys that are fit and go to the gym. I asked the one guy I was dating if my weight bothered him and he told me he usually prefers someone fit, that goes to the gym and eats well but for health reasons. He didn't feel. like I was unhealthy and he thought I was gorgeous and very fun. So my weight never was a problem in any dating relationship scenario. But on here almost every guy says they want fit girls. I want to roll my eyes. You may usually be attracted to "fit" girls but in the real world some or most of you would find someone attractive with at least a little weight.
- A little weight is okay41% (12)29% (10)35% (22)Vote
- Chubby is fine41% (12)26% (9)33% (21)Vote
- Fat is fine10% (3)12% (4)11% (7)Vote
- They have to be skinny.3% (1)29% (10)17% (11)Vote
- Other5% (1)4% (1)4% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I think you are correct when you say in the real world guys don't notice a little weight as long as there is a connection. On the internet things like preferences become exaggerated but when it comes down to it there is no measure for how a girl will connect with you and tying yourself adamantly to a type is foolish.2
Most Helpful Girl
I voted for chubby is fine.
One of my ex boyfriends was overweight. He was shorter than me and getting closer to obese but at the time I still liked him. He was really funny, and had beautiful green eyes.
As for guys, I think some would also not mind some chub. I was overweight for a bit, and not many guys approached or talked to me. Only guys I knew when I was fit would hug me and tell me they loved me (as a friend). Then I lost weight again and guys talked to me more.1