Everyone at my college uses this app called Yik Yak (like an annonymous twitter). they have recently started a "hottest fresman" and "nicest ass" and apparently I was nominated for both and had the most "upvotes" meaning I was the winner of both. I'm not particularly confident about my looks, so I was surprised.
The thing is, no guy except for one has approached me at school trying to flirt (unless I'm oblivious to their flirting). If people found me to be those things, would more peope try to approach/flirt with me?
I'm really confused and it's kind of confusing/messing with me and my self esteem, so any insight would be helpful.
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Guys usually want to know a woman is interested before they make a move, especially if the woman is very attractive. Then she is intimidating and the guy has a higher chance of rejection. It helps get a guy's confidence up to ask a girl out when she flirts and he thinks she is interested. Otherwise, it is like a salesman making cold calls... You have to expect lots of rejection.1