My whole life people have called me "an ugly freak" I don't have many friends and the few friends and family who are close to me say I'm cute. Last week three boys asked me out as a joke, which cut to the core. I'm turning eighteen and I've never had any intrest shown in me romantically and even my doctor has suggested plastic surgeries and dieting. I know I shouldn't be all "mememememe"... but I want to know are my friends and family patronizing me? Am I really ugly?
Most Helpful Guy
Your face in the picture you posted here is definitely not ugly. It must be something else or everyone around you who says negative things are just not the right people for you. I know it's hard to keep your head up when being made fun of but it's something you gotta develop. Takes time. Instead of putting all your time into focusing on your look and how others treat you try focusing on other important parts of life. Like your skills and career. Look for the positives. In other words, get your mind off the negatives by finding and focusing on the positives. All the negativity surrounding you will go away eventually.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't understand any of this. You're totally cute! You've got killer cheek bones and such a nice smile. I think you're made fun of because of jealousy and immaturity, it really is not a reflection of you, but of them. AND WHAT THE HELL IS UP WITH YOUR DOCTOR. Are they an actual licensed individual? Just what. They actually suggested surgery to you? That blows my mind.0