I was made fun of a lot during my school years. For my weight and many other things. Girls have treated me very poorly. For instance a girl once told me she doesn't date guys with bigger breasts then her. Others have plain out said I was gross. Not looking for sympathy. I am looking for honesty. I am tired of wondering if all these feelings that I am gross or disgusting are true. You can rate me if you want (1-10), but I'd prefer a more thought out answer. Am I attractive? Honest opinions please. My personality is 10/10
Most Helpful Girl
You have potential for sure. Right now I'd say you're about a 4/10 looks wise. Gonna be straight forward with you on how to improve your apprearence:
1.) Lose weight and build muscle. Get a gym membership and find time to go everyday. I recommend cardio and lifting weights to tone up. Maybe even hire a personal trainer?
2.) The hair. Your beard is fine, messy but fine. But the bald head? Find some way to grow hair on the top of your head too. It will help.
3.) Your outfit. Maybe try dressing classier?
4.) Get a tan. Trust me, having color makes you more attractive and slims you down. Just don't burn. Gradually build color
I'm attaching a picture of how you could potentially look if you really worked toward your appearance. Maybe even slimmer than this guy if you really set your heart to it! I know it's easier said than done, but it's definitely possible. Don't lose faith in yourself.
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Most Helpful Guy
I won't lie - in your current state, you immediately jump out at me as a 3/10. That said, your basic features aren't bad, and you could improve with some fairly basic changes.
First is the weight. It's an obvious one, but
it's unsightly and will shorten your lifespan. If you make drastic changes in your diet and exercise regularly, you should be able to lose it in a reasonable amount of time.
Second is your hair. I'm not sure how attached you are to it, but it's receding heavily and looks pretty bad. You seem to have a decent skull shape and facial structure, so shaving might not be a bad idea.
Last is the beard. I realize how long hair takes to grow, and that a majestic beard like that doesn't grow overnight. Still, not many ladies are into the big, flowing facial hair these days. Most prefer a short, well-trimmed beard or none at all. I leave this to your discretion.
Overall, you're not a bad-looking dude. With a few changes I think you'll easily be 6-7/10 and scoring all the pussy. Good luck!2