People used to come up to me in public sometimes and say you're really pretty, or I love your hair, love your outfit. That's when I was 18-19 years old and 140 lbs. I gained 40 lbs into my 20's and people stopped coming up to me or even looking at me/ flirting with me in public. Yes, I was chubby or some people might say "thick"... others might simply cut the sugar coating bullshit and say fat. I've recently lost about 15 lbs and I've noticed cashiers at stores have lost their rude attitude toward me, strangers on the street smile a bit more at me and seem to have more respect for me in general. What is your opinion on this? Are people treated better depending on how fit they are? I know some might say well it just shows that you care about yourself if you're in shape so overweight or chubby people seem unhealthy.. but what if that "fat" person just lost 40 lbs? They completely care about themselves but they're being treated poorly... so take that into consideration as well!
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Yes! Believe it or not people still judge on appearance and will act to you how they feel about you. They might say they dont judge by appearance but its an instinct1