I'm 20, 5'3, 85lbs.
Very skinny :(
Trying to gain weight.
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Most Helpful Guy
At 85 pounds, you are quite diminutive and I would expect many people to be surprised at meeting a girl so small. So many people feel compelled to say things that are so obvious. My girlfriend is 4'11". People meet her and say, "You certainly are short," as if she had never considered that possibility. It is irritating. Perhaps you can deflect those comments by responding with, "I'm sure you don't mean to be offensive but it really bothers me to hear comments like that."0
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, tell anyone who's making those shitty comments to shut up.
You're a petite girl. You have a delicate bone structure. You will always be petite, and a lot of guys like that.
And you are probably naturally that thin too, and still, there's guys that like that. But if you wanna put on a little weight, go for it.
You should aim to put on a little muscle as well as a little fat to fill out and look firm but have some more curves going on. But only if that's what you want.
Gaining weight isn't easy for people like you (and me as well to a certain degree) but you can do it, it just takes effort. If you want any tips message me.0