So I guess I'm pretty attractive in real life, but whenever someone takes a picture of me or takes a video, I look absolutely hideous? if someone films me from the front camera on their phone it's 1000% beter already...
but everytime I see a video or photo of myself it's a huge blow to my self-esteem and I'd rather cry in the bathroom...
But what do I really look like? is it possible to be so unphotgenic that it shows on video? selfies and such are okay, and I look pretty good I think.
I do get some attention from guys, but it's gotten to the point where I feel like they do it out of pity?
Most Helpful Guy
I totally get ya. I'm the same way. In rl I turn heads, women act all nervous around me (to the point it's annoying); one time I had a woman walk right into a door frame and practically killed herself after I smiled at her. I'm told I'm good looking. (I don't get it).
Anyway it's rare that a photo of me comes out ok. Usually I end up looking horrible. I don't know what it is. I tried online dating but without a great photo it is hopeless.
On the flip side I have a friend who you can't take a bad photo of the guy. He could be scratching his nuts, sitting on the toilet and a photo will come out like it should be a post card.0
Most Helpful Girl
ugh i feel it!!! i love how i look in the mirror, but as soon as i try to take a picture, its bad! i have to take like 15 pictures to finally get a decent one. and dont even get me started on how i look when other people take pictures. it just makes noo sense. and when i tell people i dont like taking pictures, they get surprised saying they assumed that all pretty girls love taking pictures, im like you just haven't seen my struggle! haha because every time i do post a picture anywhere, it took me foreverrr to get a good one.0