I weigh about 160 pounds and I'm 4'10.5" with big boobs and butt for my size. I'm in my second year of high school and I've gotten some comments on multiple areas of my body. Some girls say "Wow your boobs are huge!" and I feel like I get weird looks walking down the halls to class. I've noticed that the majority of my school is compiled of skinny girls. I see most of them with boyfriends and I can't help but feel subconscious since I think it may be because of the way I look. So, with this paragraph leading up to my question, here it is: Do guys prefer skinny or curvy girls more?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah... its kinda hard to judge without pictures but if you don't feel comfortable posting any body photos asking for ratings then I'd say (tentatively of course) that you SOUND "curvy" and not "unattractively fat" Judging from girls commenting on your boobs being huge (as guys tend not to comment on the size of a girls boobs unless they're suicidal lol :P), I'd guess that your boobs are bigger than your belly, which makes you "curvy" (unless the girls at your school are so skinny that anything bigger than a B or C looks huge to them :$).
To answer your question directly:
I and most guys I know prefer "curvy" to skinny. This is because curvy implies that the woman in question has:
1. A big ass relative to waist size (wide hips)
2. Big boobs relative to waist size (healthy genetics + a HEALTHY amount of body fat)
3. Large (but not too large) thighs (wide hips + healthy amount of body fat)
1. Small/flat ass (small or slight hips)
2. Small or non-existent boobs (unhealthy genetics + a complete or near-complete lack of body fat)
3. Small thighs (small/slight hips + a complete or near-complete lack of body fat)
Some guys prefer skinny due to Freudian stuff or for other sexual reasons, but the majority of men prefer "curvy" women simply because big boobs + wide hips make you physically fit to be a mother (according to the male brain) and shows that you have a healthy amount of body fat, meaning you have access to steady food but the self-control to not simply binge. Honestly I'm uncertain about that 160 pounds to that 4'10.5 though... My personal rule with things like that is:
If your boobs and your butt are bigger than (go out farther than) your belly you're fine. So try applying that and see what you conclude.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Hi there! To answer your question: honestly you can't really group guys into a "skinny girls" or "curvy girls" box. Everyone has different tastes and it all depends on the guy.
That being said, I have something else to say: you are most likely not "curvy" (curvy implying that you are at a healthy weight with a larger bust and hips/butt). I'm eight inches taller than you and I weigh twenty pounds less, and I am definitely on the "curvy" side and not at all model thin. From the sound of it you are extremely overweight, especially for your height. Now, me saying this is in no way an attempt to bring you down, however, your health is important and at your current weight you are not healthy. I know I may be walking into a hornet's nest by saying this, but you are slowly killing yourself at your current weight, you are going to bring about all sorts of health issues such as diabetes, hypertension (high blood pressure), heart disease, etc. Please consider seeing a doctor or nutritionist/physical trainer and try to get to a healthy weight.
Also, I know I did not explain this as well as I probably could have so check out the website "Rush University Medical Center - Ideal Height and Weight Chart" (I can't put the link in) because it has a detailed explanation of healthy weight for your height as well as some helpful charts and a BMI calculator that may prove useful.
I hope it clears things up a little, and I truly hope you realize the danger you are putting yourself in at this weight and you attempt to make a lifestyle change. Your health is incredibly important, and only you can fix it!0