People tell me wow you're so beautiful.. or I wish I had your curves.. you're so lucky!
I just don't feel like I am attractive.
Guys have almost never liked me back- I will think they are into me so I try to pursue them (talk to them, try to get to know them better, hang out) and things will go great and then all of a sudden they will say oh I actually don't feel anything... sorry for giving you mixed signals. I'm also still a virgin. I have a handful of friends.. and none of them are. They will all be talking about their boyfriends and how happy they are and I cannot relate at all. They ask me why I don't have a boyfriend and I honestly don't know.
I have never fit into one social group so I just kind of float around and talk to different groups but sometimes I feel like they don't want me there.
I feel like a loser to be honest.
Can you give me some advice... please.
Most Helpful Guy
It's hard to say why. There's so many possible reasons. It sounds like you must be at least average looking but probably above average. Maybe you're shy and that makes guys afraid to approach cuz they think if you're not talking to them then you must not be interested or must have a boyfriend. This is true with a lot of girls, especially if they're on the prettier side and shy. I think it's good not to attach yourself to a particular group, be above that and like everyone. Maybe you haven't found the right guy yet but you will. Don't be hard on yourself, your not a loser. We all have value and imperfections, accept them in yourself and others and learn to live with them. Don't lower your standards in order to get a boyfriend. Know what you're looking for and don't accept less. Expect to be treated with respect and respect others too. The right guy will come along and you'll be glad you waited. You're gonna be ok. Keep your principles.0
Most Helpful Girl
No need to feel like a loser! You lost, when you gave up! You're asking for advice, which means you're still fighting!
I don't know, use the compliment shower to push you back on your feet and head out there and smile, meet people, and maybe make a move on someone you like.
REMEMBERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!! Be nice/respectful and stay true to yourself, then you'll find someone who takes you for who you are0