Ok so here me out, I know cat calling is bad and gross and scary BUT, I see all these girl's say how they get cat called and told how beautiful they are wherever they go, and that never happens to me and it make's me sometime's feel that maybe i'm unnatractive/ugly? ):
Most Helpful Guy
First of all, how do you know your friends aren't lying? Sounds like they must be pretty insecure if they have to go around telling people how hot everyone thinks they are. Maybe you're just not a liar. Second of all, just cuz you don't hear those things doesn't mean you're not pretty. Do you hear other girls getting cat called? I've never heard anyone cat call a girl in public that I remember. Third, don't pay attention to people on here that say negative things. They're just here to hurt people cuz it makes them feel better about themselves. They have no idea how you look. I'm sure you look just fine and you're an amazing person. Don't value yourself on what other people think. You have value, everyone does. You also have imperfections, everyone does. That makes you normal and unique. Try to relax and not worry. You're so young and soon you'll be out of this stage in your life and realize the things you worried about were ridiculous and you might even laugh at yourself. The high school world is totally phoney. It has no resemblance to the real world whatsoever. Things will be different when you get out and you'll have a whole new world. Be yourself cuz you have importance and value no matter what anyone else thinks or says. So smile and keep your chin up, you got this. 😉0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't get called pretty a lot too by random people. Only by my boyfriend really. Who should call me pretty? My parents, people at school? I live in a small town so it's normal I don't get catcalled that much by random people.
Besides, being catcalled doesn't mean you're pretty. Those guys catcall pretty much every girl who's not too old or young.0