My whole life I've been told i'm ugly, and I know that I am. I really really like this guy, he's a few years older than me but not many. He's upper class and i'm lower class. I talk to him and we snapchat sometimes but I only show him me when I have makeup on and my hair is fixed. He lives in this nice neighborhood and I live in a trailer park. He's such a sweet guy and he's so handsome too, he's good at sports and I've never been sporty. It breaks my heart when he talks about other girls because I love him a lot but I don't think he notices me. I want to make myself attractive so maybe things could happen and he wouldn't have to be with the ugly girl, I want to be beautiful for him. He likes Selena Gomez and Kendall Jenner, they have dark hair and full lips and a perfect smile. I have blonde hair, thin lips and a very ugly smile. I dress more casual and he loves when girls dress preppy. He's everything that I want but i'm everything he dislikes, help me please. How can I be beautiful for him?
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First thing's first. You're pretty. You're not even close to being ugly. Not even average. I'd say you're for sure pretty. People who say other wise are clearly blind.
Second thing.. there's no such thing as leagues. There isn't. Leagues are just social constructs that we form within our own minds. They aren't reality. In reality there are no "leagues". Sure he lives in a richer neighborhood. That doesn't mean he's better than you. Money is temporary. You can wake up one day and lose all of that.
He likes this:
This mouse little girl looking chick? Really? You're prettier than her by far.
And Kendall is bland. She's like black coffee. Only reason why she's a model is because she's tall and was already famous.
Now the part you most don't want to read: You've got to move on. If you're not what he wants then to hell with him. There are other guys out there who are going to be similar type to what you want and they may want a girl like you.1