Reason for question 1 - Growing up with Asian standards I've always been told I'm fat. I'm 5'9" and I'm approx 160lbs. I consider myself average neither fat nor skinny. Pics are from newest to oldest. The older ones I'm a little heavier.
Reason on for question 2 - I've been on online dating sites for 3 months. All I've been getting are hook up requests. Do I look desperate or easy? My friends and family have read my written profile and tells me nothing in it hints that I'm looking for hook ups. These are the same pics I use on the dating sites.
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I don't think you look fat at all, just a bit chubby. Which I consider myself to be too. Nothing wrong with that.
About your second question, I think it's a bit hard to find serious people looking for a relationship on dating sites sometimes. Depends on what dating site you're using etc. But you should probably put in your bio that you are either looking for something more serious or that you just aren't there for hooking up. I don't think you look like an easy hook up, it's probably more on the men that write to you than on how "easy" you look.
All of that aside, I think you look really pretty and you should be happy with yourself no matter how people on the dating side are treating you!0