I've been an online dating user for about a 3 weeks now and it's been pretty slow... I've had about a dozen conversation that went nowhere and another dozen one time replies (where they respond only once)... That might sound pretty good to some guys but I've probably messaged around a 100 women or so.
I have rearranged my bio/about me a few times now and I never say just "hi" "hey" or "how are you" (I ask a question based off of their profile or say something random) now I feel like maybe my look isn't that appealing either... So what do you think? Be brutally honest would you be interested or not?
- No, stay you62%(21)59%(38)Vote57%(17)
- Trim your hair12%(4)14%(9)Vote17%(5)
- Trim your beard9%(3)5%(3)Vote0%(0)
- Cut both12%(4)14%(9)Vote17%(5)
- Other... Explain...5%(2)8%(5)Vote9%(3)
Most Helpful Girl
No you don't! Stay true to yourself and there are plenty of girls who like beards.
I'm personally not too fond of beards but it looks good on you!
Hang in there, the right girl will come into your life soon enough!
Maybe try messaging a cute girl but the type you typically wouldn't go for. If you prefer brunettes try blondes, if prefer white girls go for women of color, if you prefer younger girls try a bit older, etc.1
Most Helpful Guy
You beard Looks fine to me - From the stories I hear about dating sites your experience sounds normal for a guy so unless you are a Greek God you will struggle a bit.1