I feel like my breast are not proportionate to my body size and sometimes I get insecure about it. I am only 17, tall and relatively skinny but my breast are 34E cup. Most people would classify me as a shy and conservative girl. I'm not one to go around drawing attention to myself or acting out.
Sometimes my breast draw more attention to me then I desire and I get insecure and nervous easily, I don't really know why, it's just the type person that i am. I don't usually wear tight fitting shirts or low-cut shirts that draw attention to myself but it doesn't seem to help. I always see guys looking straight at my boobs and I just get nervous to the point my palms start sweating.
Last weekend I got invited to the beach by some girls that I go to school with, I didn't want to feel different by wearing a full cover top when all the other girls were wearing bikinis so I decided to wear a string bikini top as well. I thought I was going to be with just girls but when we got to the beach several of the guys we went to school with were there as well. I immediately got nervous and didn't want to take my shirt off. One of the girls asked me why don't I take my shirt off so I did. when I did every one of the guys eyes went straight to my boobs and I just felt very insecure. It didn't help that The bikini top was squeezing my boobs together. I tried playing volleyball with them for a little bit but they were bouncing around so much and getting stared at that I just went back and sat down on the towel and laid out.
Why do I have to feel this way? Is it just something I'm telling myself in my head or do you think people are really judging me? Do you ever feel insecure about yourself? What do you do about it?
Most Helpful Guy
Chill, sweetheart. You're blessed with an attractive body, and this will attract people just by your mere looks. They're not judging you, they're either desiring or envying. You don't need to be insecure at all.
You feel this way because you're shy, and shy people don't like to have so much attention. But you gotta learn how to live with it.
You can't avoid people staring at your body but you can avoid being just a good pair of boobs on a hot body. Exercise your mind, take care of your health and be a good person.3
Most Helpful Girl
Girl, don't feel self conscious about your looks!
I so wish i had big boobs like yours. i am a small B cup (32B), very skinny, and I so want to have big boobs. If i had the $$$ i would get implants! I want a CC or D cup!
What you have to learn to do is "play along" with the guys and girls that stare at your boobs. I would tell them, "yes, they are big? Are you jealous? You should be!"
I would buy a bikini top that fits your E cups. This will support them and keep them from bouncing out if you do activities.
Girl, learn to use your looks to get what you want in life. I do it every chance i get.
** Please do not do what Ariel Winter did and get a breast reduction! Look at Sophie Vergara! She uses her looks and amazing boobs to get where she wants in life!
Guys will stare, but as they get to know you, they will stop staring at your boobs and look at you for you.
If all else fails, when guys stare at your chest, you stare at their shorts, and laugh. When they ask what are you laughing at, you say, "Oh, i was feeling sorry for you that your package isn't as nice as my rack!"
I guarantee they will stop staring!1