I feel like it would be a smart decision for someone like me. I have a history of making the mistake of having sex too fast in relationships, ultimately making them very shortlived. I want to know a guy loves me for my soul, not sex. And it takes a long time for someone to get to know me, because it is hard to break my walls down and see my personality. I'm very shy and reserved, but fun and playful only when I know people for a long time.
Most Helpful Guy
yes. emotional ones.
sex and emotion are very strongly linked, and so even non-religious people or people who are not in "wait until marriage" type religions might choose to wait because they want the "consummation" of their marriage to actually mean something.
You can't exactly consummate something you've done with each other countless times before0
Most Helpful Girl
It will mean more when you do give yourself to someone.0