I thought at least trying to workout would get a girl to at least talk to me but they just push me off because im not good looking in the face. Im getting so desperate (i dont do bigger girls tho sorry) and i wish someone would even show slight interest :(
Most Helpful Girl
Well, you're not ugly, so maybe you just come off as desperate. That being said, you can't get upset with someone for not being attracted to you. The face is more important than the body. I go through the same thing with guys. I have an ugly face, but a nice body. No man wants me, but I don't get angry with them for it. People can't help who they are or aren't attracted to. I'd rather have someone like me for me instead of just liking me because they feel sorry for me. This post sounds like you just want women to feel sorry for you. I think that would make you feel worse.
You said that you don't like bigger girls, so that's your preference. Why is it okay for you to have that preference, but women can't have their preferences?
That being said, you aren't ugly and I am not saying that to be nice. I just think you're giving off your desperate vibes, or you are doing something to make women uncomfortable. Your face is actually really cute and you have a nice smile.0
Most Helpful Guy
you aren't doing black guys a favour by being this ridiculous so publicly. You, like most guys, are focused on completely the wrong things when it comes to attracting women. You have no idea what women want... and by the looks of it you don't care all that much either. How do you expect to get what you want from women if you don't give them what they want? My advice to you is to drop the dumbbells, sit yourself down on a couch, and contemplate your life. I promise, it will do you some good6
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